“You’re such a moody person!”
“Why do you keep complaining all the time?”
“You really need to watch your weight.”
“You’re this and you’re that.
This is wrong with you, and that, you just can't do that.”
Yes, these are mean, harsh things that we've all heard from others. Whether out of concern or just a thoughtless impulse, sometimes even our closest friends end up saying things to us that may be true but are hurtful nevertheless.
And then come suggestions:
“Why don’t you get a makeover? Try a new haircut.”
“You know, I got to know about new mind-body training sessions. They only cost Rs. 3000 an hour, let’s join them together!” (As if Rs. 3000/hour is ‘only’!)
“Everything in this world is pointless. Just sit at home and read the big book of depression.”